How can we start talking about the issues we care about with the people we care about? Two words: climate communications.
Estimated reading time: 8 minutes
The question that comes up MOST in our lives professionally and personally, in our newsletters, and in the Soapbox community is: “How do I talk about climate change?” And it’s usually followed by…
THIS TOPIC IS HARD. But it’s also extremely simple (please note that simple ≠ easy. It’s simple and hard).
Talking about climate change is simple because there is a large, growing body of research that tells you how to talk about it! It’s also extremely difficult because, well, we are emotional creatures. When conversations don’t go our way, we tend to freak out. Let's change that!
Here’s what we’ll cover step-by-step:
It’s time we have a chat on HOW to chat about the issues we care about. 📢
🎯 Action step 1 of 4: READ — Let's start by looking at a few articles together.
Let’s break down two things: intrinsic vs. extrinsic values, and the values-perception gap. Both of these topics fully blew our minds and we will NEVER look at the world, or other people, the same way again.
These concepts are broken down into our assumptions, facts on why we believe them, mind-blowing evidence from research studies, and key takeaways.
Concept 1: Intrinsic vs. extrinsic values
For now, remember that when you’re talking to someone, it might seem obvious to say “You can save money by buying this zero-waste product!”—as we’ve been told for years. But maybe that’s not the most effective route. Page 12-19 in this nicely organized guide by the Common Cause Foundation is perfect if you want to learn more.
Concept 2: Values-perception gap
The takeaway? People do care! Yay! This makes our job communicating climate change much, MUCH easier! Learn more here and soak it in.
🏁 Checkpoint: This is the end of action step 1 of 4: READ.
🎯 Action step 2 of 4: LISTEN — we'll watch a short video or listen to a podcast to further expand on our topic.
We tend to exaggerate, but we’ve been 100% serious both times—when we put these concepts into action, everything changes.
The toughest part of communicating “well” about hard things—like how our planet is on fire—is that these topics are highly emotional.
Our communication how-tos tend to go out the window when we get emotionally flooded. However, the more we practice these simple and proven ideas, the more we let our logical brain prevail and have productive conversations about things we care about!
Our DREAM is that you actually read the book Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg
In the meantime, this video will do — it breaks down the key concepts to the framework. We found that the nuances and practice exercises in the book were key to actually helping our brains understand how to communicate non-violently, but this video will at least introduce you to NVC.
You’ll learn that:
Here is also an INCREDIBLE visualization of how we perceive others vs. the truth about how we are generally good people who care about each other.
🏁 Checkpoint: This is the end of action step 2 of 4: LISTEN.
🎯 Action step 3 of 4: ACT — Now it's time to do something. Let's go!
If there’s ONE THING we’re hoping you take away from this action pack, it’s that we have been really dramatic about approaching climate conversations. We’ve made it seem like people aren’t on our side when they are. We’ve made it seem like the majority of people disagree on the facts when that’s not the case.
So, takeaway: talking about climate change is way less intimidating than we think. Here, you’ll learn some simple strategies to have these convos with the people around you.
1. Urge tech to lobby for climate action.
This is specifically for employees of Alphabet, Amazon, Apple, Facebook, and Microsoft. If you aren’t one, sign this petition on behalf of a friend! It’s SUCH a simple action to take.
2. Write down three if-then statements in your life.
One reason we dread talking about hard things is that we feel unprepared. The simplest way you can prepare is by identifying common conversation onramps that show up in your life. For the next seven days, pay attention to situations where it could be a good time to talk about climate or social justice. Write down three of these.
Maybe someone brings up how depressing the news is. Maybe a company offers to send you swag in response to a feedback survey. Maybe you’re organizing a dinner. Whatever it is — these are your “ifs”. Once you’ve identified three circumstances, write a “then” statement.
3. Have ONE conversation this week about something sustainable you did that makes you happy.
Getting confident is about finding your allies! Find a “joy anchor” that you love talking about — a sustainable action that you want to shout from the rooftop because it’s benefitted your life in so many ways. For us, the top three things are bragging about my bike rides to our friends, investing in Carbon Collective, and joining our local Buy Nothing Project group. You’ll likely find that your joy anchor is something that most people in your life can relate to, regardless of their enthusiasm for climate action.
4. Get curious at your workplace.
We covered nonviolent communication: observations, feelings, needs, and requests. Test it out at work by finding a simple question that works for you. For example, “I’m having a hard time figuring out what [our company] is doing to measure our carbon emissions. Where can I find information about that?” That’s all you need to do! No arguments are needed!
5. Talk to a child about climate change.
MANY Soapbox parents have shared this as a concern. The great news is, kids are way more resilient and attuned to the world than adults. The NRDC has a great guide on how to talk to kids of all ages. One activity that works well for kids and adults alike is asking… what does your dream world look like?
You could journal or draw this together. The next time you go out into the world, you can actively look for signals to point out that this ideal world is happening. For example, if your kid imagines a world where the whales get to live freely, you could teach them about blue parks. Make sure to capture what YOU learn in this conversation!
Note: These steps are simple because they’re straightforward, but you actually have to practice! They’re not just about tips—it’s also about finding ways you’ll look forward to talking about climate change.
🏁 Checkpoint: This is the end of action step 3 of 4: ACT.
Before we go any further, it's time for you to pledge your commitment. It takes less than 30 seconds to pledge and we can bother you about it in a friendly way, so we can hold each other accountable. Pledge here!
🎯 Action step 4 of 4: REFLECT — what can you commit to? What fresh perspectives can we look at?
Now some personal news…
Our founder, Nivi, and her fiance, Ben, got engaged in 2022!! The Washington Post shared her decision to opt for an engagement bike instead of investing in a ring. Climate communication is SO important because her happy little story could have stayed with us, but now, it’s on a platform where 60 million people a month access digitally.
When we share our stories, we give people new frameworks and ideas to get creative about priorities. These stories can create magic!
When you talk about happy life decisions that are also good for the environment, you can inspire people in your life to think differently and make better choices. Not just better in a judgy stereotypical tree-hugger way — better in a way that’s fun, joyful, and exciting! Climate communication can inspire people to be better in every way. This can be truly life-changing.
When the engagement bike article came out, we got the best email:
I just read the article in Washington Post about your “engagement bike” and want to thank you for bringing a smile to my early morning. I love that you love to bike and that you’ve made it an important part of your life. It touched me and made me think that maybe I can add a little something as a wedding gift.
The wedding gift is an ebike trip in the European countryside from eBike Nomads. Their founder, David, read the article and just reached out with zero expectations.
And, par consequence, introduced Nivi and Ben to a completely new paradigm of what travel can mean!
Some concluding thoughts from this engagement bike saga:
Some things you could do next:
We’ll end with a quote from the engagement bike article that we’re still cackling about: But if happiness or a long marriage is what you’re after, it’s worth asking if the objects embedded in our rituals are special to you — or special to a mining corporation with excellent marketing.
Read the Washington Post article here and make sure to sign up for their Climate Coach column by Michael Coren! Remember—your voice matters and it can have so much impact. More than you know.
🏁 Checkpoint: This is the end of action step 4 of 4: REFLECT.
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